Lupita celebrates Enoch's Birthday with Siempre's girls
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Siempre, Built to Be a Blessing
March 15, 2007 - Vol 2, Issue 9
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Noemi, Louis, Loupita and Arturo

"So Big!" It's a game many of us have played with our kids as they've grown up. Stretching their little hands to the skies, teasing a smile out of them, scrunching our face up into a silly smile or huge, wide eyes as we over exaggerate and say "So Big!" Just waiting for them to learn to stretch their little arms towards the heavens so we can hug them. Wednesday afternoon, as little Arturo and his siblings, ran to greet us, the image flashed through my mind: "So Big!" I wondered how many of you had held Arturo, Lupita, on your laps, had coaxed a smile or a hug out of them and then held their little arms to the heavens in a lesson of love and in a language they didn't understand, had said, "So Big!" It's a funny thing to say to a kid. Before you know it, it's true. Some of our first kids, kids that touched our hearts deeply, greeted us warmly- and they are so big!

Noemi and little sister Lupita- enjoy the day
I think it was a November day- I remember it was wet, cold and there was mud everywhere. It was our first year, our first months really, we came down for a Wednesday afternoon with friends, and four new kids had been left at Siempre's door step: Noemi, Louis, Lupita and Arturo. Alejandro and Aracelys had cleaned them up and put them in new clothes before we arrived- but their little eyes still had that first day look of shell shock. Arturo was just months old, Lupita barely had hair, but they were all adorable and we fell in love immediately. We had only 7 or 8 other children at the time, so 4 new kids made a profound and immediate impact. Their family had faced heart breaking tragedy and Siempre was the only way that mom saw out of what seemed to be disaster that would destroy them all. We welcomed and loved them with open arms. They became part of our lives. Our directors and workers loved them and cared for them as if they were their own children.

Two years came and went- life improved for their mom, she remarried, became pregnant and more than anything, wanted her children to come home. After a number of visits and interviews, our directors doing an amazing job of building a lasting relationship with their mother, we took the kids to their new home- said good bye -and cried our eyes out in both joy for their reunion and sorrow at having to say goodbye. It was a good thing and we learned lessons that would serve us with other children in the year to come.

Last week their new baby brother had to be rushed to the hospital. Their step dad would lose his job if he missed work. They're in a brand new home, less than a month old, that they don't want to lose and mom had to stay with the baby at the hospital- so she turned back to Siempre. Graciously, our leaders opened their arms to four of our own and for the last week the entire household has been loving the kids- well, doing their best love Louis as well -that kid seems to have only grown more ornery with age! They were all waiting for us when we pulled up Wednesday afternoon. Big hugs, lot's of hand holding, a regular celebration of sorts. Their little brother's much better and the kids should already be home. But what a blessing to know that mom considered Siempre her first place to turn in time of trouble. Mom approved. Hard to find a higher rating than that for a children's home.
Our Group Shot for the Day
Kid's don't come to Siempre because everything's going great in their lives. The kids smile in our weekly group photo because they have a place where they belong after losing whatever home they shared with their families before they came to us. Last week two of our kids were surrendered to DIF, Mexico's version of child protective services, in order to protect them from remaining family members, people who had done them harm, because they were pursuing them at Siempre and making legal threats to our directors. This week, both children were returned, by DIF, after spending a somewhat frightening seven days in shelter homes. The kids were welcomed back with open arms by Alejandro, Aracelys, Bianca and Brenda- greeted with love by all the other kids - and embraced warmly by us Wednesday afternoon. Sometimes it may seem like we go overboard on all the attention paid to the emotional needs of the children, but we can't begin to imagine the insecurity, pain and turmoil being pulled from one place to the next, caught between dangerous family members and safe shelter, placed in one home, then the next, begins to inflict on these kids. It's gratifying, to say to least, to see them return with huge smiles and anxious to pick up the routines of daily living in the promise of Siempre- always -always a warm, safe place to live, always good meals to eat, always safe love and attention, always home. We couldn't do it without you. Your love, your financial support, your prayers keeps our doors open.

General Inspection! What fun. None of us enjoy being evaluated or scrutinized to see if we're "good enough." Our staff and facilities at Siempre faced exactly that Wednesday morning as DIF workers came for inspection to make sure we were safe harbor for these two kids, who had now become wards of the state. Siempre, staff and facilities, passed with flying colors. DIF inspectors left glowing remarks in our guest book complimenting and thanking everyone involved for a great home and great personnel. They returned both children, making Siempre their legal guardians and leaving all the official paper work in Alejandro's hands. It was easy to see that a weight had been lifted from everyone's shoulders and that they now had a new sense of pride and rightly so. They were DIF or Mexican Government approved, the highest standard in their nation, entrusted to watch over kids who had been wards of the state, even if only for one week. God's good and it's great to have both kids back in the loving arms of Siempre.
Street Children of Narok, Kenya - prepare to view The Jesus Film
"How do you do it?" a friend asked last week after receiving our Siempre update. It gave us the opportunity to talk about things close to my heart; Central Community, Jackets for Jesus, the kids of Siempre, our work in Kenya. I had the chance to invite someone new to share this great opportunity God's given us. Most of all, I was reminded of how much I'm not doing: how many billions of children are sleeping hungry, cold, without shelter, far from the promise of Siempre right now. The kid in the picture is one of a couple of hundred children that filled a little soccer stadium for a showing of The Jesus Film last month. He's involved in a soccer league for street children of Narok, Kenya. A young man named Peter has given his life to serving and raising these children up. He doesn't have the backing of the government, he barely has a roof over his own head. so shamelessly he asks anyone who'll listen, to join him in his crusade to help these lost children. He's one voice, crying out against the darkness, unapologetically, in the hope that someone will listen, that someone will come along side him, that someone will help rescue these kids. Peter's one of my heroes. Unsung and overlooked by the world, he continues. He works with just one arm- and never mentions it -he's adapted to his loss so well that many never notice. When I asked him why he's working to give children who live on the street a soccer league, when they don't even have food to eat or a roof over their head, he said: "I just love football. I'm a footballer!" "How do I do it?" I remember Peter. He's out there without the loving support system I have and he's giving 100% for the kids overlooked by his community. We need about a billion more Peter's in the world. Someday, I hope you can meet him.

Part of my hope for Siempre is that someday our kids will grow up to have a heart like Peter's. They'll know and see the need in their own community and want to meet it. They'll remember the model for living they've learned at Siempre Para Los Ninos and be able to repeat it. They'll be quick to realize that they've received a blessing and do their best to be a blessing to those still outside the promise and protection of siempre. We're not there yet. Society, for the most part, is neglecting her children. It's easy to get depressed and feel like there's nothing we can do and give up. Every Wednesday afternoon at Siempre I'm reminded that hope is alive- and if it's alive for the kids of Siempre Para Los Ninos, it's alive for kids hurting, hungry and living alone all around the world. "How do I do it?" A better question is "Why do I do it?" To remember that hope is alive, there's a practical solution to the problems that plague society and kill our children and that I'm part of God's Plan and Purpose in it all. Really, I can't imagine why our cars aren't full every Wednesday. I need the homecoming more than you'll ever know. I'm so thankful for the opportunity to go. We always drive away with smiles on our faces. I've been smiling since we left yesterday. What a great home coming to hope. I need it!

Together, we built Siempre. Literally, every nail, ever paint stroke, every bit of our work has been done by us, working together. Thanks so much for your continued support. As our work grows, greater than we ever imagined, we need to continue to work together for the good of these kids. You'll be blessed, I promise.

3 Important Ways You Can Get Involved!

1. Siempre's Massive Rummage Sale! This Saturday morning, the 17th. Friday night the 16th, for you serious shoppers, there's a presale, tickets are $5- Saturday morning, a pancake breakfast, cooked by Siempre's own Theresa Burns- and of course, the sale. If you still have stuff to donate- get it here quickly. I'm in OC with a trailer, Friday mid-day, to pick up some stuff from friends, might have room for a little more. It's a no clothes sale, so just the "good junk" please. Already have a cool truck and other nice donations- don't hold back! Then come out an enjoy the morning at Central Community.

2. Siempre's Golf Tournament - our first! April 28th is coming up fast and we need golfers! Invite all your friends and make sure they get registered - just to put our hearts at ease. We're also having a post tourney dinner and auction- have some cool items donated- can always use more. Get amazingly creative and generous and we'll auction it off. Then come and bid generously.

3. Memorial Day Weekend! It's how we get it all done each year. This year we're building our biggest project yet. Community meeting room, new kitchen, a place big enough for all the kids to eat together, medical and dental center and a new home for Pastor Israel and his family. Whooh! It's a BIG building, I've seen the plans. We're going to need every one of you to spend the weekend with us. Register today! It's always for the children and every penny from our fund raisers goes to help pay for this project. They need to be successful!

siempre,

Pastor Eric and Fabian on a Cold Afternoon
Eric Denton
Siempre Para Los Ninos

phone: 1-951-689-5806

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